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If a person is giving signals to some other man, such as for instance watching him and rotating their ankles together with his shoes/socks down, so what does this mean? Or if he sits beside after this you discusses both you and taps the base of their foot or their ankle, so what does it suggest? I’ve had this take place while waiting in the coach end. Any suggestions about just just what these indications could suggest will be appreciated. — Male Body Gestures

They’re cruising you for sex, and I also would be shocked if you didn’t understand that. Perhaps you’re too young to consider the Sen. Larry Craig homointercourseual intercourse restroom scandal of 2007. In that case, it involved the Republican (homophobic, closeted, “family values”) senator soliciting for bathroom intercourse in a airport restroom by tapping their base, then pressing the base of the undercover officer within the stall close to him, who then arrested him.

Making use of coded signaling was initially for protective reasons, as homosexual guys were often targeted by police (whilst still being are) and susceptible to harassment, abuse, and/or imprisonment. In order to prevent this, also to enable other queer men to get them, they developed codes, sometimes elaborate ones — like the hanky rule — to show interest that is sexual.

Relating to a quite long post about general public intercourse codes on Urban Dictionary, “Tapping the foot over and over repeatedly in a separated rhythmic pattern basically claims ‘Hello friend, i will be designed for public sex.’ that is gay a response that is positive the tapping could be a much slow rhythmic tapping translated to ‘Well hello to you too. [Read more…]