I never confronted the OW because, like Linda, I already knew the things I desired to from my H. I have actually chosen to ignore her completely. Well, because completely being a stalker will enable you to do.
We never really confronted my H either. He was caught by me from the phone at 1:00 am and asked whom he was speaking with at that hour. He got the deer in the headlight appearance and didn’t answer. 24 hours later, when I had completely ignored him, he confessed to your EA. The OW was called by him and told her he couldn’t speak to her more. She called me returning to explain and we informed her we had been perhaps maybe maybe not thinking about conversing with her and then hung up. We still will not talk to her. She will continue to simply simply simply take pokes at me personally, very nearly a year later on, but i have already been told by specialists on stalkers to disregard her. Their viewpoint is me and then talk to her H that they should gather the evidence of her stalking independently of. Professionals state for me to tell her to leave us alone that it is too dangerous. I hope this may resolve the problem. Maybe not… however the point is: that you don’t understand this other individual and, in a Glenn Close/Michael Douglas situation so don’t confront if you don’t have to if you are like me, you may find yourself.
We too had looked at confronting the OW. Rather she called me personally anytime she could not contact him. She had gotten my quantity from my better half the event partner. One morning she called me personally 36 times. She discovered where we lived and endured outside my residence along with her young adult child. We made an effort to movie her presence. 4 months later on he and I also ended up being making to possess break fast, she parked in the front of our automobile. [Read more…]