You have to endure the day-to-day covert domestic abuse, the passive aggressive manipulation, or his constant attempts to make you look like the bad person so you are finally divorced from your narcissist, and no longer do. Or would you? Simply because he is your ex lover, does not suggest his behavior ever stops. You shall, in the end, still need to keep in touch with your narcissist when you yourself have young ones.

You will see times you’ll want to keep in touch with your ex partner, particularly if you must co-parent. But because he’s a narcissist, the act that is simple of seems near to impossible. He might perhaps maybe not react to you at all or play games to you via text or email, making you desire to pull the hair on your head away. Or even the easy request of experiencing him bring your kid to a recreations function leads to an argument that is full-blown.

Avoid the narcissistic vortex. It’s their make an effort to draw you into their narcissistic dream globe, where he could be constantly the victim/martyr, and you’re their aggressor. It’s his significance of narcissistic supply – the gas providing you with fuel to their ego. He has to remind himself (as well as others) because you are now divorced, he knows you no longer consider him the prince he is trying to be that he is still truly special, but. As well as for that, he resents you greatly.

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