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You are telling yourself: You DON’T think you are worthy of his pursuit when you chase a man.
You’re interested in a fresh man in which he appears like he could be thinking about you, too. Nevertheless when he does not call or text you (he’s shy and insecure and he’s afraid to call you and ask you out like he said he would) you convince yourself. You call him to “help him down” but he’s noises unenthusiastic and uncommunicative and then he coolly declines your invitation to satisfy for coffee or a cocktail.
Your heart sinks you made an irreversible mistake in calling him because you know.
Or possibly you had been nervous in your very first date and you’re afraid you blotched with him. You stress in him, or that you talked too much or you drank too much that you didn’t show enough interest. You agonize, should you phone him to bolster your fascination with him—or should you wait you? for him to call
You succumb to your self-doubt and anxiety and you call him. You ask him over for lunch or even the flicks in which he blows you down. Or perhaps you haunt their favorite hangout looking to run into him; you might think if he views you it’s going to rekindle their curiosity about you, but instead you may be chagrined by their aloof reception. [Read more…]
