Irrespective, read my post once more, combined with the other links we posted, and let me know just what about this is misogynistic. (FTR, it will get without stating that critique of females, in and of itself, just isn’t similar to misogyny).

Into staying in the relationship, my actual happiness be damned– while expecting all the value that was traditionally expected of men– plus more– from me) as I said above: I’ve had plenty of nice dates over the last 20 years with a wide range of otherwise normal women who are decent human beings, and then from all walks of life– bartenders and factory line workers, all the way up to women with masters degrees and doctors (who, FTR, made way more money than I do, and it was never a concern in my eyes), and all of varying physical proportions/attractiveness– short, tall, some slightly overweight, some rail-thin, some flat chested with no hips, some super curvy, some with model-quality facial features, some not so much, etc. )… however, they all wound up being bad relationship material for the reasons I listed above (usually the housepet or overgrown child categories– they expected their default existence in my life or half-assed efforts that I had to “command”/ask/request/beg of them to be all that’s required– basically they only wanted to do enough to placate me.

Clearly i have to never be all that “misogynistic” if I’ve put enough effort into my previous relationships that they progressed to the level on one or more event they desired to invest their life beside me, marry me, have kids beside me, and additionally they also did the big most of initiating intimately (whether or not we rejected them or perhaps not), etc. [Read more…]